02.01.2008  BY EM & LO
Tara had a sex dream that surprisingly left her breathless (don't forget to submit your dreams to be analyzed at dreams@dailybedpost.com):
not sure if this counts, but i woke up this morning with a pillow between my legs, and for the record, i had had a sex dream about michael cera (!) last night. analyze that!
When intercourse hurts and you need a little cheerleadering, you can sometimes rely on the kindness of strangers:
if intercourse isn't doing it for you, try exploring a little, find out what makes you tick and what gets you off...and then show your partner how to do that.  oh yeah, on the pain thing? if you've never had intercourse before, you can be pretty tight. (personal experience! ow.) go slow! lube up! like the nice daily bedpost ladies said, pay attention to your clit! lube up! don't be afraid to ask to stop halfway and just cuddle for a bit! did i say lube up?
And Sandra gets all anthropological on us with her rebuttal to the claim that porn can be blamed for the Brazilian:
Saying porn is the 'culprit' [of the totally bare look] makes it sound like it is somehow wrong to groom body hair. It isn't more strange to shave your pubes than to dye the gray hair on your head, or streak your hair purple, or get a perm. We, as a species, have always done strange and sometimes painful things for beauty and/or sexual pleasure, and grooming pubes is just the latest. Bleaching your face is common in Japan (and in Michael Jackson's house), wearing neck rings is cool in some aboriginal tribes, ear plugs that wildly distend the lobe, nose rings...we do all kinds of stuff to our body. If you ask me, porn follows instinct, not the other way around.


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After a break-up, do everything you can to avoid rose-colored hindsight. This may include playing that montage of fond memories over and over in the theater of your mind with the Dolby surround-sound system playing Muse or Maroon 5 on repeat. No good can come of this; you'll simply end up feeling more inadequate, lonely, and depressed. Instead, focus on your ex's faults. There must be at least one (besides their ability to live without you), even if it's just a malformed pinkie toe or a tendency to douse every meal in ketchup.
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