it happened to me once, but i didnt know he had a gf at the time...and then he broke up with her and we started dating...huge fluke, but it can happen...and now we're broken up...maybe i should have seen that coming...

but i think it depends on if you have a history with the person (friendship or otherwise) and there's always been this inevitable attraction that one night you happen to act on. if there's really nothing there and your drunk and you know he has a gf, back off it's not worth it.

I met a man through a dating site who said upfront that he was married. The deal was that he had a business trip upcoming to the city I was living in and wanted a hookup. After emailing and calling for a couple weeks, I said sure, why not. He comes to town several times a year and we now plan to hook up whenever he does.

There's a special place in HELL for women who mess with other women's men

i don't think it's a good idea to be sleeping with other people partner whwther it;s a f/m. that's the problem today and y relationships are so messed up today, and no i'm not going to lie i have a baby by someone else man and it dosen't feel good because he's with her some days and trys to play those games with me too and i expected him to be honest to me.....but i thought about it he cheated on me and probaly has another baby.....so all i can do is ask god for forgiveness and move on.

I THINK THAT IT'S NOT A GOOD IDEA TO BE SLEEPING WITH A PERSONS BOYFRIEND.. WHY? BECUASE FIRST OF ALL I WOULD LIKE THAT TO HAPPENDED TO ME. SECOND OF ALL HOW HOPE IF HE AS A PROBLEM GOING ON. I WOULD LIKE TO BE THE SECOND GIRL I WOULD TO BE THE FIRST AND ONLY THE FIRST....PLACE YOUR SELF YOU THE PROBLEM? AND IF YOU DONT KNOW THAT HE HAD A GIRLFIREND THEY THAT DIFFERENT BECAUSE YOU DID KNOW? BUT I THIS CASE YOU DID KNOW AND THATS BAD... EVERY THING YOU DO YOU LIFE IT COMES BACK TO YOU.....

Once a cheater, always a cheater. And that includes you. Cheap thrills can be found many ways. Get real and have a little respect for yourself.

I think it's disgusting and cheap to "hook up" with a married man! (or woman) People should get back to basics, and have some respect not only for herself, but for others too!

Well, what is that "man" is your ex that moved in with her? Why didnt he tell her that he was already in a relationship "before" he cheated? It makes me sick that woman are accused of being the other woman, because sometimes they dont know, or the man is just trying to have a good time. To answer the question...it depends on the situation..but out of respect for the people involved, the answer is probably a "no."

FUCK THAT "there's a special place in hell for women who mess with other womens men" thats BULLSHIT. Take care of HIS NEEDS at home then!!! I didn't have my needs taken care an I left. 2 minutes an 34 seconds, that was our sex life. Long enough for him to get off and the I was told get you next time. 3 years of that??? I'm the whore for leaving a man that couldn't satisfy me. He didn't care, just like in that 3 yrs he held a job for one year. Now all I got to say is if you don't handle your shit at home SOMEONE WILL. If your a woman an not a mouse you'll know how to be a woman, if your a mouse leave the men in the cat section alone, they'll eat you an spit ya out Sweetheart. An some other pussy will catch them.