I firmly believe that anyone making money off of porn should damn well be in porn themselves--while I was running my site, asking models to do BendYogaGirl.com something I wasn't willing to do myself seemed really exploitative. These days, I don't get naked online anymore--I shot my last porno set about three and a half years ago.  I'm not going to say that I'll never do it again--I never say never--but right now, I'm free sexting really enjoying my privacy.  Oh, and it's a lot easier to get people to take you seriously when you keep your clothes on (sad but true!).

Is sex like pizza, even when it's bad it's good? Why or why not?

I used to say that I'd rather have bad sex than no sex, but these days, it's the reverse.  Maybe I'm just getting old, but bad sex just seems like way too much effort for way too little pay off. But then, I'm also a snob about my pizza, too.

How does your work affect your sex life?

Being a sex writer and educator has made me more comfortable talking about sex, more knowledgeable about sex and sexuality, Real Slut Sex and more open to experimentation--all things that make for better, hotter sex. Granted, my job has also made a lot of people view me as a novelty, or the kind of girl you can fuck but sugar daddy apps not date--but given that I
wouldn't want to date those people anyway, it's not much of a loss.

Craziest place you've ever had sex?

Butt sex, 2am, Central Park.  I ended up losing my glasses in the heat of passion--if you're going to have sex in the park at night, bring a flashlight!

Most underrated erogenous zone?

I was going to say "the brain," but since that's the standard answer, it can't really be that underrated.  I'm going to have to go with men's nipples--no one seems to remember that you don't have to have breasts to like a little nipple action.

Favorite on-screen sex scene?

Anything from "Secretary."  If that actually had sex in it, it would be my favorite porn ever.

Desert island sex-toy?

, hands down.  I recently and was shocked by what is a sugar daddy how much I liked it.  Plus, since it's a dildo, I wouldn't have to worry about looking for outlets (or spare batteries) on a desert island.

Best sex advice you've ever given or received?

Be open and honest about your needs and desires.  If your partner can't handle who you are, you probably just aren't right for each other (though it's generally a good idea to get to know each other before bringing out the big guns, like, say, adult babies or fantasy rape.).

Dead historical person you'd have sex with if you could (alive, of

Can I say Heath Ledger?  Too soon? Maybe one of the Wright brothers: we could become founding members of the Mile High Club.

Least sexy "sex symbol"?

I will never understand what anyone sees in Paris Hilton. Seriously, now.

Rate the following in order of importance, from greatest to least: sex,
love, money, fame, chocolate, Facebook.

Love, sex, money, fame, chocolate, Facebook.



Great stuff.

I think Lux is great.


naomi said:

getting better :)

talia said:

i've read several interviews and now i want sex and pizza, good or bad.

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