In honor of Em's husband's tell-almost-all article on Glamour.com and in the print mag (see previous post), we wrote a companion sidebar to the piece called "4 Ways Our Sex Blog Has Improved Our Sex Lives." It's true, writing and opining and joking about sex here on DailyBedpost does have its fringe benefits. But it's not all toe curls and spine tingles. (Besides, talking only about how amazing our sex lives are is a way to get rotten fruit thrown at our heads.) So here's the dark side of sex writing:

1. There are times when it gets to the end of a work day and the last thing we want to do is think about, talk about, or--god forbid--actually have sex. Not having sex makes us feel a bit like hypocrites, or charlatans, or just plain lazy bums. And as far as our fellas are concerned: we guess it'd be kind of a bummer if you married a hairdresser and, at the end of the day, she just couldn't be bothered to trim your locks for you; but then apply that to oral sex and, well, sometimes we bet our guys wished they'd married hairdressers instead...