06.05.2008  BY EM & LO
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We pride ourselves on being fairly non-judgmental, non-pigeon-holing sex writers. A reader once told us that he liked the fact that we could be moral about sex and relationships without being moralistic, and that comment totally made our year. And we really try never to label anything sexual as "normal" or "abnormal"--sure, there are things we would never do, and there are things that totally squick us, but we try not to be all like "ew" about other people's sex lives. (We don't always succeed.) Which is why we're totally bumming about the response to our "Lindsay Lohan: Total L.U.G." post...

We swear it's not in our nature to question someone's right to experiment sexually, and we definitely definitely definitely don't think that someone has to be either gay or straight. Plenty of people--especially women--lie in the area in between. So apologies if our snide remarks about Lindsay's BFF-with-benefits offended. We swear our 'tude had everything to do with what we think of LiLo and nothing to do with our opinion on bisexuality or any kind of sexuality for that matter.

But, come on, people, this girl tries on identities like they're outfits for the red carpet--is no one out there even a teeny bit offended by the fact that she seems to be treating lesbianism like it's some trendy new bangle to accessorize her new image? Anyone? Bueller?


2 Comments

CarlaT. said:

Yeah.This poor girl just wants someone,anyone, strangers even, to like her. She will do anything to anyone as long as they pretend to "love"her.

DanielleB. said:

I don't know-- since she's been with Samantha she's managed to stay out of the media and out of trouble. Samantha's older but still young enough where she's a confidant for Lindsey. I think it's pretty evident that Dina hasn't been a great role model. It's apparent Dina's pushing her other daughter into the spotlight because it's what Dina desires. I think Lindsey is growing and is sipmly and unfortunately another case of a child star gone awry. But I feel she's taking proactive steps to try and find what's right for her and healthy. I say accolades to what seems to be a lasting and close friendship with Samantha.

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