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 Okay, before we tell you how to ejaculate, we have to get a couple things off our chests: First, yes, women can ejaculate. Don't believe us? Check out our introduction to the Impertinent Question video: Can Women Ejaculate? And next, no, not all women ejaculate. So if it doesn't happen for you, please don't stress about it or feel like your parts aren't working properly. The last thing we mean to do is set up an unrealistic sexpectation. And gents, please don't make it your "mission" to turn your gal into a geyser. It's okay to give it the ol' college try, but know when to give up. Some women squirt across the bed, others barely trickle, still others find G-spot stimulation so painful or annoying that they never get far enough to find out, and many will never ever ejaculate at all. And that's okay. But seeing as we're always being asked how to make it happen, we thought we'd at least tell you how to try. So, without further ado, you'll find our top ten tips for nurturing your inner female ejaculator, after the jump. 1. Most women who ejaculate say it happens as a result of direct, firm, prolonged G-spot stimulation. Remember, while all women have a G-spot, not all women enjoy having theirs stimulated. If you're one of those women, we recommend you give up now and try learning a new position or something instead. If you're not, locate your G-spot on the upper, or front wall of your vagina, about two inches in. Curve your finger in a "come hither" gesture, toward the belly button. Click here for more information from us on how to stimulate the female G-spot, or check out our Impertinent Question video: What's Up With the Female G-spot? 2. Go it alone first. There's less pressure and you can take as long as you want without worrying that you're boring anyone. Not that this is boring, of course. 3. Once your partner's involved, they might want to try a toy specifically designed for the G-spot, like the G-Twist or G-Swirl by Fun Factory, sold at GoodVibes. But really, any toy with that "come hither" hook is good--because most G-spots respond well to firm, steady, prolonged stimulation. And not all fingers can provide that. 4. Let it go. You're going to feel like you've got to pee, but don't worry about wetting the bed--if you've gone to the bathroom beforehand, there shouldn't be a problem. But even if there is a little pee, is it really a problem? We're all grownups here. 5. Bear down. Take "letting go" a step further by actually pushing out when you feel the urge to pee, like you're in a pee-off and you're about to take the lead. 6. Don't block the exit. A large toy, a penis or a hand might cut off the urethral opening (and that's where female ejaculate comes out -- though as we've said before, it's not actually pee). Keep up the stimulation, just get them out of the way as best you can. 7. Get hot and bothered. Being super sexed-up, overcome with lust, and engulfed in the flames of desire means a number of things: a) Your G-spot is easier to find and can take more pressure, which means more experimental poking. b) Your pelvic muscles are more relaxed, which makes it easier to let go. c) You're more likely to have an orgasm, causing pelvic contractions which help expel the fluid. d) You're super sexed-up, overcome with lust, and engulfed in the flames of desire! 8. Have an orgasm first. Ejaculating might be easier after your groin has already been warmed up and relaxed by an explosive O. 9. Make clean-up a cinch. Put down towels or a waterproof pad (you'll find them in the incontinence aisle at the pharmacy) or a fitted vinyl or PVC sheet (available at most sex shops) so you're not stressed about wetting the bed. Or do it in the bathtub; if you actually run a bath, the warm water will also help you relax. 10. Drink water. When you're thirsty, your body gets retentive with all its fluids, including female ejaculate. Some of the above can be found in our book The Big Bang. 12 CommentsLeave a comment |
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This happened without my awareness in moments of great pleasure...I was shocked at first and I soaked my boyfriends face ( I was standing up infront of him sitting on the bed giving me oral pleasure that he is oh so good at! He loved it, I felt so empowered and have since squatted on top of him so he can watch while I shot all over him and I never plan for it to happen it just does randomly.
Making women cum (literally) is great. What can I say, it leaves you confident in knowing that you've satisfied your women.
I have made most of the women I have been with "squirt" and it's been awesome. Yes its messy but you learn to throw down a towel. It seems to happen right as they c*m and they just explode, some more than others, and if your lucky more than once. One time I was with my GF and she squirted about 6 times and we were both soaked as we didnt take the time to take everything off. As it was going on it was nice but after we were done it s*cked, LOL.
My current GF has only done this one time and it was barely a tinkle but i try do do what it takes to make it happen. But I think it's more of a mental thing than anything.
I must say... It has happened to me plenty of times and I must say that it feels awesome!!!
The 1st time this happened 2 me I my bf or I didnt know what it was. As time progressed sometimes I did it sometimes I didnt however the times u do its the best. It more of a mental thing and ur body has to be prepared and have plenty of nourishment because if it happens once its going to happen again at the same time then u might dehydrate...LOL
Wow this has happend to me twice I thought it was pee tho so I've been holding it back and even stoping thinking I would be super embarassed if it happened. I just wonder if most men know about this.
i never know how it feels when a female cums n tonite is the first time i know how its feels because i play with my self to get know how it feels n it feel so good n i wet my bed. 'lol'
Well I was never able to do this until after I had my children. Now it is very easy for my man to make it happen and OMG! WE love it. It does take some patience but once you get the spot. Hold on and enjoy the ride.
I never had an O til I was 26 and I am 34 . You might immediately feel bad for me, don't. When I am in a relationship I sure make up for lost time. Problem is I don't have a regular boyfriend and I don't sleep around. I have. So when I do find someone I tend to be a taker before I am a giver in bed and I lose it and can O and can ejaculate more times than I can count. :-(
I don't hold back because I am so wanting it from 'going it alone' for sooo long masturbating pretty much daily and having maintained self control whenever there is a male showing interest in sex. Certainly not because I am prude (clearly) but because I have abandonment issues and if the guy were to leave after sex like that I would be traumatized and regret it even though it was mind blowing to me it's not worth it and if I don't know the person well before I sleep with them and them meet my criteria to 'be slept with' I likely can't open up enough to have those kind of orgasms so it's not really worth it anyway because that's what I consider good sex and if your not having good sex, why have sex? Also, part of it is I am TERRIFIED of catching an STD and even though I practice safe sex and am very, very, very, careful about it, I know myself very well. I know I am capable of breaking a condom and I know my daughter was conceived with two forms of birth control and even though I have my tubes tied and I can't get pregnant I can STILL CATCH AN STD!!! SO, to be safer even though it's no guarantee because not everything would show up right away which I am aware of because I work in the medical field, I much prefer my partner be tested before we have sex because I KNOW how I am once I am 'naked' and condoms do fail and you can catch STD's even using condoms. I suppose waiting til I was 26 to have an orgasm was worth the wait. From what my friends tell me they do not experience orgasms like this. I wonder if other women do. I just hope that someday I find a partner that can keep up with me and will understand my need to be satisfied before I can settle down.
when i first did it i was shocked, now im affraid that if my bf goes down on me i might drown him. Is this something i should worry about?
I believe this has happened numerous times with just myself.While laying down in my tub I have a handheld shower head with the pressure spray on i am towards the upper part of my vagina near the pelvis bone . I get such a sensation and then its like the water goes the opposite direction. it shoots out,Am i hitting the g-spot and am I ejactulating? I need to know, Its just a great feeling
The first time I squirted, I thought it was pee. That's when my boyfriend explained to me what squirting was and to further understand it better we watched a porn on squirting. The first few times it happened I was so excited cause I had never imagined my body was capable of doing that, plus it felt soo good! Very exhilarating and empowering! I have squirted more that 10 times in any one session and I squirt on a very regular basis. I know where my g-spot is and so does my boyfriend (I showed him how to hit the spot). I can always tell when I'm about to squirt and my boyfriend loves it when I squirt. Sometimes it's a waterfall and sometimes it's just a trickle, either way it's a very, very nice feeling!