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 My boyfriend really wants me to have a threeway with him and another girl but I'm not sure. Part of me thinks it'd be fun, but part of me worries what it'd be like in real life: will it make me insanely jealous, will it make me a lesbian, will he expect it all the time? What do you think I should do? Straight Single Guy (Max): You've never been with a girl, you're in a committed relationship with the guy involved and yet still, you're asking yourself if it's a good idea? Sorry, but no. I think you're just asking for trouble. Now don't get me wrong, I encourage you to have a threesome and I strongly encourage you to experiment with other women but this scenario sounds like a disaster. Threesomes should be casual, safe, and comfortable. This won't be. While he might enjoy watching you with another woman and while I assure you that kissing girls is WAY better than kissing guys (no offense to any that disagree), ask yourself if you actually want to watch him with another woman. If he keeps insisting, you've got a creepy boyfriend. You might want to do something about that. Married Straight Guy (Frederick): I say if you're at all open to it (which it sounds like you are) you should try it. Here's why: Once you're married with kids these kinds of experiences rarely present themselves. Now is the time to do all those crazy things! (Assuming you're young, unmarried and without kids.) Since you're going along with his idea you get to make as many rules as you like. Maybe designate a "safe word" that you can say that communicates "Hey boyfriend, I'm feeling a little weird, pay more attention to me," or a different one that communicates "I'm not into this anymore, get her out of here and cuddle me!" You never know though, you might enjoy it. Women are very soft. It won't make you a lesbian. I don't think he'll expect it all the time but he might see it as your thing for special occasions. Make it is very clear beforehand that your willingness to try it once makes no promises about future episodes.
Gay Committed Guy (Bill): If everyone involved is drunk, then I
say dive in (or in your case, dive down). But if you're stone-cold
sober...forget it. The hardest part of a three-way is getting the show
started. It can be awkward and confusing, more so if you haven't
loosened inhibitions with a few cocktails. However, when you are
blitzed (within reason), you have much more confidence--and tomorrow
you can blame it all on Captain Morgan. And no, I don't think you will
all of a sudden discover you love flannel shirts and Ani Difranco. Just
try not to take it too seriously...you are just a few kids having some
fun! But you should let your man know before the games begin, that you
only want to try it this once. Good luck and make sure to choose a
hottie!
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Tell him you will do it with him and another woman AFTER "we do it with a guy." Threeways cut both ways. BTW, I've never had a guy agree to those terms.
I agree with Louise. My ex asked for a three way and I said ok but only if we did it with a man first. I never heard that question again. Same thing with anal. I said let me do it to you and if you like it you can do me. But you are intertaining the thought of doing it. I wasn't.
Louise has the perfect answer... Tell the boyfriend "Sure, let's have a 3 way... there's this hot guy at work that I think you would like!" LOL
GIRL-GO FOR IT.....
GET DRUNK AND ENJOY. I DID!! I'VE BEEN W/ MY GUY FOR 7YR AND WE DID, I MADE IT CLEAR TO HIM IT WAS A ONE TIME DEAL....LET HIM KNOW TO FOCUS ON YOU AND HAVE A WAY TO COMMUNICATE SECRETLY WHEN U FEELIN LEFT OUT.
AFTER THA FIRST TIME YOU'LL BE ASKIN HIM.....
if you're thinking about and do nothing, you'll regret it for rest of your life. If you reluctantly do it, you'll regret it for the rest of your life.
Don't do it - it is sin against your body and against God.
Girl Go for it. It will NOT make you a lesbian. And it can be fun. But I have one rule. I pick the girl. And it has to be someone we don't really know. As far as I am concerned that person is a toy we are going to use for pleasure. And that is it. She can't have my man's number and I really don't need to be best pals with her. But that is why we chose to go to a brothel. Where it is safe, clean, and the other person is experienced with making us comfortable and is paid to makes sure we all have a good time.
My opinion.... only mine as everyone else has one, id love to try it, but unfortunatly i cud never share the man in my life with another woman so as much as id love to try it for my pleasure i cud never watch him having it with another woman. Im open minded but NOOOOOOOOO it cud destroy what you have. Good luck in whatever you decide
Be careful, I have a good friend that had a threesome with her husband and her best friend. It was more her husband and her friend's idea. That was a mistake. I felt it should have been her decision, and totally her terms, since she is sharing her husband. Needless to say, her husband and friend started a secret relationship and ended up with a baby. Now that's foreveer! Be carefull making you decision.
Here's the thing.........You have to trust your partner. Then, it is not a problem! It can be so romantic IF and I say IF the circumstances are right. My BF and I talked about it for months and agreed that it would happen ONLY if the time was right. And we were super sure there would be nothing involving 'the other person' after the fact. It was a commitment we made to eachother. We did not pre-plan, and we did it randomly. It was extremely romantic and made us even closer. The deal was, I talked to her about it (as we were all in the hot tub) prior to him and she agreed that she was not interested in him (after the fact) - but he also knew that if it started feeling wierd, it was an immediate stop. We had a great time. Boy! I felt like a queen! I was spoiled rotten by two people at once and loved every minute of it! So did he! No regrets whatsoever, but that is because we have/had total trust in our intentions. I say 'Go for it' just make sure you have an agreed 'out-word' in case it gets uncomfortable.
Anyone who tells you that they've had a threesome and they never want to have another one is lying to you. What's better than two hands caressing your body? Four hands. What's better than the look on your lover's face when they have an orgasm? The look on your lover's face when they are having that orgasm because they are so overstimulated by the sights, sounds, smells, tastes, and touches of group sex. I'm a guy, I've had a threesome with a girlfriend and her best friend, I've had a threesome with a buddy of mine and a female friend of ours, and my only regret is that I haven't had more threesomes and more group sex.
I unfortunatly have to say, I wish my wife would consider it yet she wont.L.O.L.,I dont get sEx but may be,,,,,Id' say Maybe 2 times a yr!She has told me more than one time"if you want sEx !or a 3 way?go and find your self one or 2 hot females and have a blast!"WTF" I think as she walks away.Get, madd!Sure I think a lot of guys like my self think about it ! Because I think it would be one wild dream come true.What I dont want to happen is,they both like it and call the house bug~in the hell out of me.Or may Be I wouldnt mind it al all! The wife? She has grown away from like~ing sEx.
Yet,I love sEx! Yep,I love sex and Maybe with 2 other females''*''wouldnt be bad after all!
That away,It would make up for all the times I cant get it at home!2times a yr?that Sucks!You should try that !!!!!!!I wish it was ea day or twice a~day like it was before we said ,I~ do!When she would blow my mind!And keep me guessin what was next with the hot passionate sEx days
Yep, I miss the good old days !Say 8 yrs ago.Thats how much I Luv the thought of a 3 way!with 2 seXy Females !That would be a dream come true!!I wish mine would come true soon! Auh ~Yea!
Let""""s go~~~~ for ~~~~~~~~~it!
well me bein a spontaneous person i would also consider it but i would have my doubts i dont think i would go through with it but the people above have all given you some really great advise go with bill alrighty let uss knoo how it goes.....
The answer to this problem is to tell him that you want to experiment with another woman and let him WATCH!!!!! My wife suggested the same thing and she absolutely loved it. I have to admit watching your wife make out with another beautiful woman is something that you will never forget. After you do this and if you enjoy it (which i'm sure you will). Then open your possibilites for him to participate if you want, but trust me he will not turn down the chance to see you and another woman fufill your fantasy's. If nothing else this helped put the spark back into our sex life. Have a drink relax and be ready to have the most exciting time of your's and his life.