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Very rarely are other people's dreams interesting...except when they're about sex. This week dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tackles a sex nightmare:

Current dream is my husband cheating, woman is always super nice, he is never apologetic and defends her. I smack him around but my blows never touch him.

Should she hire a private investigator? Start cheating on him in her own dreams? Find out after the jump (right after you send us your own dreams!):

Our inbox is overflowing and we'll never get to all the lonely hearts, so each week, one reader's fate will be left up to the masses. Answer this reader's question by filling out the poll after the jump:

Dear Em & Lo,

Frankly, I'm not enjoying sex all that much at all. It feels nice, but after a while it's just like "Eh," and "Is it almost over?" and I feel bad for that. I think it's horribly overrated, but that's just me. I know it's really the matter of my boyfriend and myself both being each other's firsts...but I've tried all the little tips and pieces of advice I can find and nothing is working. I know most women don't orgasm from intercourse, and I've heard most women don't start orgasming until they hit their 20s, but they at least enjoy it. I don't know who else to ask, and I know that I can't actually say anything to my boyfriend about it, because I don't want to upset him; honestly, I'm perfectly fine with my sex life the way it is, but I can't help but wonder if sex is really any better than this or if my expectations were just too high. All I want to do is see if I could enjoy it a bit more. The one thing I ask is that you do not tell me to try oral to reach an orgasm or anything like that because my boyfriend doesn't really do oral and I've tried pretty much every bit of advice having to do with that that I could find.

I'm not asking for an end-all-cure-all for instant orgasms, or anything like that, but I'm just asking for a way to at least enjoy sex, rather then just be content with it. Could you please help me?

--So Over Sex

What do you think?

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