Advice from our guy friends. This week they answer the question, What makes the perfect blowjob?

Straight single guy (Colin): Commitment. Not the emotional kind. I'm talking about the mentality an actor brings to a role, the ferocity an athlete brings to her sport. For right now this is the only thing in the world and you're going to do whatever it takes to succeed.

Gay Committed Guy (Terence): Hold on, let me see how much space we've got to answer this one. Nah, it's simple really: it's for him to know and you to find out. All boys are different. He may like it slow, deliberate, just the tip, deep in the throat, hard, fast, using a hand, or a finger (heh heh), circular, bobbing--who knows? Get down there and find out. You could even ask him directly--how novel! Figuring out his own personal preferences is the only way it'll be perfect for him.

Straight Married Guy (Matt): Frequency! Okay, there's a bit more to it than that. Initiating is great--it's nice not to always have to ask for a blowjob. I love to know that she's into it, so it really turns me on if I hear her moaning a little. And variety is key, mixing up what you do with your hands and mouth. Like, twisting your hands back and forth as you go up and down with your mouth. And watch your guy, pay attention to him, because while it's good to mix things up at the beginning, when he's about to come--hopefully you know him well enough to be able to tell--you don't want to get too fancy, you just want to keep doing the same thing, just a bit harder and faster than you were before. And, if you can, swallow at the end, you know, assuming you're in a relationship and aren't using STD protection (they're making me say that). For me, a blowjob just feels disappointing without it.

Our "guys" are a rotating group of contributors, some of whom wish to remain anonymous and some of whom like the attention. This week's Straight Single Guy is our former uber-intern, Colin Adamo.